Who Pays For What At A Wedding
Cultural backgrounds and individual convictions heavily influence the decision-making in Wedding Etiquette.
The following is a general guide.
The Bride Typically pays for:
- The Wedding ring for the Groom
- Gifts for the Attendants
- Groom’s wedding ring
- The wedding gift for the Groom
- Accommodations for out-of-town Attendants
The Groom typically pays for:
- The Bride’s rings including the Engagement ring
- Groom’s wedding attire
- The honeymoon & transportation to the honeymoon
- Wedding gift for the bride
- The marriage license
- The Groomsmen’s and ushers’ gifts
- Accommodations for out-of-town groom’s men
- Flowers for the Bride
- The going-away corsage, corsages for mothers, and special ladies
- The boutonnieres for men in wedding party
- The gloves, ties and accessories for the men in the wedding party
- Fee for clergy person or judge
The Groom’s Family typically pays for:
- Rehearsal dinner
- Alcohol at reception
- Groom’s Cake
- The Wedding gift for the newlyweds
The Bride’s Family typically pays for:
- The cost of the reception
- The Bride’s Wedding attire/trousseau
- Invitations, announcements, thank you notes
- The seating assignment chart, napkins and mailing costs
- Photographer
- Videographer
- Ceremony costs, including flowers and church fee
- Bridesmaids, flower girl, ring bearer flowers and accessories
- Transportation for bridal party on Wedding day from ceremony to reception
- All gratuities for all services: parking ,security
- Bridesmaid luncheon
- Favors for reception
- Guestbook for reception
- Wedding gift for newlyweds
The Attendants typically pay for:
Bridesmaids:
- Wedding attire; Bridesmaid dress, shoes & accessories
- Travel expenses
- Shower & Wedding gift for newlyweds
- Shower given by bridesmaids &/or maid of honor
Groomsmen:
- Wedding attire rental
- Wedding gift for the couple
- Travel costs
- Bachelor party given by best man and/or ushers